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Originally posted by ktsnake
I actually had a "talk" saying that I refused to engage in relationship defining talk.
So far, we've been monogomous for 4 years. The 'State of the Relationship' talk -- "Where are we, where are we going" crap places undue stress on a relationship in my opinion and should be avoided at all costs.
Just go with the flow and allow the relationship to define itself.
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Is this something they teach you in LEAD or the Legion of Honor...heheh my SN said the same thing 4.5 years ago. =P
And to give my .02, just make it easy and ask if he was planning on seeing other people at school or if you were going to be exclusive. I'd say he likes ya a lot since he called you the day he got back from his study abroad, but I'm a girl, and sometimes we need the Berger truth.."He's just not interested." I like the truth even though it sucks sometimes.