~ 3 YEARS: Well, I had a best friend in high school, and me and him were pretty close to one another. We would go on random dates for 3 years.

~ 3 MONTHS: His family, especially his mom, freaked me out. He and his mom had this freakish relationship. It's just too hard to explain. The only thing I can really understand from it and only care to understand is his mom was completely obsessed with him. It was weird!

He was an only child and adopted (don't get me wrong, there are only children and adoptees that have normal relationships with their parents and turned out completely normal but he didn't). She couldn't have kids and there you go. That was the situation. This son/mother relationship was one of those things that made you go "bluhhhh!"

He also was freakishly religious. At the time, I was wanting to be a VH1 VJ, and he said he just couldn't be with someone that promoted such blatant sexuality and promiscuity by wanting that career. To him, VH1 is not as blatant about sex and sexuality as MTV, etc. but it was still there and, since sex was so evil, he couldn't be with or possibly ever be married to a VH1 VJ. He also didn't want to move to NYC b/c he couldn't be away from his dear old mommy.