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One of my sisters had both or her roommates come through informally 2 springs ago. The chapter loved one and didn't really care for the other. Part of the problem with the one we didn't want to extend a bid to was that she had gone through formal recruitment the previous fall and we had cut her. We also did not extend her a bid when we had informal recruitment right after either. We admired her persistance but totallt didn't see her as a sister.
It was hard for my sister to have one roommate get a bid and the other not. She didn't sleep in her room the night bids went out. From what I understand now though, she still talks to the non-sister often and there are no hard feelings. I think maybe she realized she just wasn't for us.
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