I don't think males and females are supposed to understand each other, that's just part of the mystery. SH80, you claim that females are preoccupied with guys, thinness, and make-up. Yes, some of us are but a lot of that is society/media. Why are males so preoccupied with sports, their cars, and sex? Maybe it's the same reason, I don't know.
I think James has the right idea!
