I had a very good friend that pledged a sorority and ended up finding out during her pledging period that she was pregnant. She finished pledging and was not able to become initatied because she had to leave school because of her high risk pregnancy. Once she was able to return, the sorority president let her know that she couldnt be initiated. She was so devastated and went through rush again and was given a bid by another sorority where she is now an active and very happy! Some sororities and fraternities chapters are just not understanding!
Good Luck with whichever you choose to do!
Brandi