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Originally posted by kddani
the partially structured or whatever it was thing was hell. That's what I rushed through... you just came and went to parties as you pleased, only invites/cuts were for pref. Some groups would make it so uncomfortable to leave! So girls would go into XYZ and not be able to go to ABC, or just wouldn't go. It didn't force anyone to be realistic.
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See, that might be part of the problem - I think with that kind of rush people are afraid to get "too" formal. You can still have parties with specific times, half an hour or whatever. You have to stay for the whole party, but you only go to the ones you want. I think that arriving/leaving in the middle of parties would be really uncomfortable, for the sororities and for PNMs.