Hey Amanda~
I'm sorry to hear that you're not 100% happy with your chapter. Try to make the best of your time left in college. Go out and participate in everything you can with your chapter. Think about it this way- ABC obviously liked you enough to pref you, but at the same time, they liked you enough to let another chapter be home. ABC must have seen something deep inside that told them you would be happier at XYZ and they took that into consideration when they extended bids. Don't assume that everyone else got their top bids, because more than likely they didn't. Those people have learned that their 3nd or 3rd choice is their true home and don't let people know they aren't at their 1st choice. I hope your time left in college is happier. Just remember- every year is a new year and ABC won't be the "top" chapter anymore!
