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Originally posted by RedHotChiO
I hate "the talk". I recently had one, and I wouldn't have even done it, except that we had been seeing each other for 2 months, and he told me he thought we were just "hanging out". C'mon just "hanging out"! I "hang out" with the 20 other guys I'm friends with that I don't want to date.
So we decided that we are dating and now he won't return my emails.
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Then you probably aren't dating
Why corner someone into this when they don't want to be? If you don't like the situation, and you're not at the same place in your life or wanting the same things in a relationship, it's just time to move on.
State of the Relationship talks rarely turn out well -- and if they do, there's always a better way to handle it.
It's very intimidating for the person that is not bringing it up and it's rarely an honest exchange. It's just one trying to placate the other.