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When I refer to "the talk" I'm specifically talking about the discussion as to whether to be exclusive -- which really is a pretty quick conversation to have. In my opinion, unless two people have agreed to be exclusive, either party could start seeing/screwing/whatever someone else at any time and the other person would have no cause to be upset about it. Many, many people in relationships want to know when the expectation of exclusivity arises, which isn't until both people agree to it.
I would never, ever have the discussion over the phone. That's something that should be done in person.
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