I went alum because I left school, not because I graduated. I know that's not ideal, but it is what it is. That said, I went back a semester or so later to visit the chapter. When I entered the room, mostly everyone stood up for me but one sister (whom, might I add, was in my pledge class and I thought was a friendly girl) was VERY snottily like "Don't stand up for HER!
". I thought it was very rude. Regardless of the circumstances, alum is alum. I was told that after I left, she got chewed out. Oh well. She'll understand when she goes back right aftershe graduates and no one stands up for her.