[James]

Thats very cool actually. How did she take it when you said it like that?

Originally posted by ktsnake
I actually had a "talk" saying that I refused to engage in relationship defining talk.

So far, we've been monogomous for 4 years. The 'State of the Relationship' talk -- "Where are we, where are we going" crap places undue stress on a relationship in my opinion and should be avoided at all costs.

Just go with the flow and allow the relationship to define itself.