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I am thinking you are still an undergrad from your post. We make meaningful friendships in undergrad that we think will last forever. As our time in this make-believe land comes to a close though, we realize who are real friends are and who are friends are just to fill something in our lives for a moment. It sounds like you are in a completely different place in your life then these three. It is okay to move on. It sounds like you are already heading in that direction, especially because it sounds like you've made some great new friends. I'd concentrate on the people you are friends with now and let the toxicidity run its course into the ground. From what I've seen most people we are close to when we first enter college we are not close to for whatever reason by the time we graduate or shortly after. Good luck with whatever you choose. Sadly, I saw that happen with 4 really close friends from college, 3 who were sisters, and one of those three I was her maid of honor at her wedding. Sisters or not, I couldn't deal with the drama anymore. I still keep in touch with everyone on occasion, but it's still not the same anymore.
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