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I've been in your shoes, and as hard as it is, walk away. The women who will be your true friends will shake themselves awake and come back to you. With people like these as self-absorbed as they are, a conversation about "breaking up the friendship" really isn't worth anything. Just back out of it-- avoid plans, stop returning phone calls, etc, and act like a typical guy.
All three have deep personal issues they need to work on, and you've clearly been drained from their issues... so for the sake your mental health, clear out until they get healthy again, too. You can only be there for your friends so much... and sometimes a good friend knows when to let a friend be. Help them help themselves by letting go.
You have other friends to get you through and you are doing the right thing for both yourself and them.
Good luck.
PS: Don't drag it out. Just go.
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