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ronso
i don't know how i missed your postings the first time around! i am sorry that the outcome wasn't what you(and all of us) hoped for you. however, if you think that you might like to give greek life one more chance, there are some things you can do(if you haven't already) to show all the chapters what a great member you would be:
1) join a club or special interest group on campus-it can be one related to your major, or just a hobby
2) keep those grades up
3) volunteer your time to a worthy cause-it could be volunteering at a soup kitchen, tutoring a child or a fellow student, joining in on a campus wide volunteer event, etc.
items i and 3 will enable you to meet other students with similar interests and some of them will be greeks-networking is one of the best ways to become known, and in structured settings like the above, it takes the pressure off both you and any fraternity members you meet. sorority members also could be a help by gettng to know you and then introducing you to their fraternity friends.
you sound as if you would be an asset to any house. i hope you won't give up on greek life. lisa
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