I actually had a "talk" saying that I refused to engage in relationship defining talk.
So far, we've been monogomous for 4 years. The 'State of the Relationship' talk -- "Where are we, where are we going" crap places undue stress on a relationship in my opinion and should be avoided at all costs.
Just go with the flow and allow the relationship to define itself.
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