My guy and I have been together nearly 4 years, and we've had our share of ups and downs - but he's always a wonderfully sweet guy. Its the little things he does for me:
Sometimes at night, if I've been at his place, he'll walk me inside and when I go to wash off makeup and put on PJs, he'll pull my bed down and fluff up my pillows for me. Or if I'm at the computer working and all stressed, he'll give me a backrub. He even skipped his classes last wednesday when I fell down and hurt my back - he wanted to drive me to the doctor
Newbie: I hope things get better for you. I know its hard when a relationship gets wierd. Josh and I fought once our entire first year together - we were like magic together. And then things went downhill. But, we stuck it out, and now things are better than ever! We're even talking about finding a time in the future to talk about marriage

Just hang in there girl! It'll always get better *hug*