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Originally posted by dzfan
i'd be skeptical about moving in if they said they weren't sure about marriage. You move in with a guy to take that next step in being together all the time b/c you're that giddy in love with that person.
As my mother says, "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" - love is an absolute gift-but you all are right to be cautious IMO.
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True. True. The reason I make this statement is because I see people move in with S.O.'s and then it seems eons before they get engaged, if they actually do..............You hear stuff like "oh he's saving for the ring" or "we want to be more financially stable or know where we are living" and what not.........If you know you love a person enough to live with them and you have been dating for awhile I think that engagement should be an appropriate next step. (Not saying he has to pay 10g's on a ring but you know what I mean................).