I have a question for everyone in relation to the whole "moving in" issue. What about when your s.o. says "I will be ready to live with you at such and such a point but I don't know if I will be ready to be engaged yet"..........How would you/have you dealt with this? Especially because I think many people think that getting engaged=instantly married and all the responsibilities that come with that (ie. "accidental" pregnancies, bills, etc). Just curio