[KSUViolet06]

I came into my chapter through informal recruitment. Usually, informal consists of several get togethers or outings with the sisters so they can get to know you better.

These are the events I went to while going through informal, to give you a better idea:

* Cookie baking @ the house for the other Songfest participants.

*Lunch in the student center with 3 of the actives.

*A KSU basketball game with 3 more actives.

*Board Games Night @ the house.

The chapter isn't going to outright act like they LOOVE you. It's just like meeting anyone for the first time. They are trying to feel you out.

As far as pref goes, some groups may choose to do their pref, while others might not.

My advice to your buddy: Act naturally, relax, don't be nervous, and have fun doing the activity they have planned for you. Ask questions. TRY not to get caught up in whether or not they "like you"- even though it can be hard