[Kevin]

It all boils down to what you and the other person are comfortable with. It's a real touchy moral issue with some folks, so it's something that needs a lot of discussion.

I'm VERY cautious about the whole marriage thing and take it extremely seriously as I understand it to be something that is FOR LIFE. Therefore, anything you can do to improve your chances of selecting well the first time in my book is a good thing.

But that doesn't work for everyone and I respect that.