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I'm sorry! It doesn't sound like a very good situation. I wouldn't move home if you can help it.
How old are you? Age has a lot to do with this. My parents didn't really let go until I was 21, and only know that I am out of school and working do they recognize my decisions as my own. Even though they still have and voice their opinions, they know in the end, I am shaping my life the way I want it to be and I have the final say. Of course, they mostly agree with my choices, so it isn't too hard. I think the hardest thing for them was my decision to not move back to the Midwest, but to say in California.
I would use this opportunity to show how adult you are to your parents and listen to what they are saying. Try and calmly talk about their viewpoints, and realize that they want you to be happy, healthy and successful. That more than anything will show them that you are mature and can make solid decisions.
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