Be your age people, if you are old enough to play, you can admit the stats . . . if you want to, and you should both not fear censure nor be warned about it.
If you need to be a virgin to pledge or to achieve a certain age with respectability . . . there are an awful lot of women (for men the younger is a greater badge of courage) who have fallen through the cracks because they have managed to keep things quiet . . .
Life is hard enough without more artificial social pressures by some self appointed and self righteous moral majority.
Disclaimer: No specific reference here.