opaldragon, the new advisor of UNLV LXA is one of my Chapter Brothers!
It seems, that he has made a difference there and I hope for the better.
While I have not gone through this syndrome as an Active having founded the local, I have gone through this as an Alum who is heavily envolved, still.
Frustration sets in and one gets tired of some of the petty s++t of the humdrum. But, if it is not for the few, then We have nothing.
It can relate on both sides of being an Active and an Alum.
When I get fed up and say I am done with this, one of my Brothers say Hey Bro. With out you we would not be here and You are needed.
As Brother Rams says, it is the 80-20, 20 % do and the other 80 % just ride along.