Ok I can delay hitting the bar for a few for this one.
Truly, all our hearts are bleeding for you Lifesaver. Some little hottie (woman) lets you pick her up from . . a computer lab. Goes out to dinner with you and her friends . . . I doubt you picked up her tab?
And her girl friend invites you back to the apartment . . . where the girl is honest with you and says she has a b-friend.
And after the b-friend goes to sleep has sex with you on your first date. Then comes up with expensive tickets to a game, and takes you. Invites you back to her place . . . and her you did wrong . . you owed her a cuddle for the tickets.
Oh and now you are totally freaked because she might be willing to share you with her friend who seems interested in you.
Macfly! MacFly! (Back to the Future movie reference)
News Flash: Girl is willing to maintain a non-committed sexual relationship with you that involves taking YOU out to fun stuff and being really cool company as well as being easy to get along with.
Its a bloody Penthouse letter not a problem
All of the rest us are just bowing our heads chanting "we are not worthy, we are not worthy". Austin Powers didn't get that lucky and he was fictional!
But I may be missing the point as to how she is playing you when she has been honest with you and promised you nothing . . .
This PC thing is going to far its robbing men of our masculinity.
The only troubling aspect is the existance of the boyfriend, that can have unpredictable and unpleasant ramifications. Which could be even made worse if you just broke up with her on the spot.
Be young have fun
[This message has been edited by James (edited April 27, 2001).]