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Please give serious thought if you wish to remain serious with this man.
A similar situation happened to me...my best friend in the entire world for a year and a half told me he had broken up with his girlfriend (who he had given a promise ring to just 4 months earlier) and wanted to pursue a relationship with me. Then he started telling me how much he loved me and wanted to marry me etc etc etc. Three months and many suspicions later, it came out that he had never broken up with her! When she confronted him, he denied everything that I told her had happened- he said I misinterpreted everything he said, things said on AIM had been typed by a "lonely buddy" (he's in the army), and that certain things we did never occurred. He literally told me I was crazy, and he didn't know what I was talking about...to save face of course. But about 2 weeks later, his conscience finally got to him and he admitted "everything" to her. She stayed with him thinking that if he told her everything, he was truely sorry. But I talked with her again and told her some more stuff that he had not told her, so he had not in fact told her EVERYTHING. And of course, she believed him over me, despite that he had just lied to her about the whole thing 2 weeks earlier...
My point is, just because he says that he loves you, doesn't mean he does. I personally wouldn't take him back... I really don't think actions speak louder than words. This guy did everything he could to get together with me (remember he still had this other girl on the side), and it still ended up bad. Last time I talked to him, he maintained to me that he loved her and was going to marry her...
I dunno, I realize all guys aren't like this guy at all, but just be careful with your heart. I would suggest dating other people for a while and if you still love him, then try to work things out.
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