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			from sorority to sorority and chapter to chapter, but i wanted to point out that while some people do experience that "once in a lifetime bond", there are others that don't. it doesn't mean that you and your little don't like each other or get along, it just might mean that there are sisters you each are closer to. going into a big/little relationship with the "be all /end all" expectation is like going out on one date with a guy & expecting that you will hit it off so well that you'll end up getting married. it might happen, but then again it might not. it doesn't mean that he's not a nice guy and you are not a nice girl. it just means that there might be a more suitable match still out there.
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