[sweetie adpi]

i'm not telling you that you can't feel however you want to feel, but i am urging you to evaluate your response to their actions when taking into account their intent - generally when someone is rude to me, they usually have every intent to be.

i'm saying in this situation, it's highly probable that these sisters had no idea that anyone would be victimized or upset by their actions. so maybe instead of continuing to be so upset about something that is inevitably going to happen again, and defining it as callous and rude, do something positive about it, (which you are trying to do, and that's great) but why waste time and energy judging these sisters actions (which you seem to continue to do) or become bitter over something that you see as a sister disrespecting you when that was probably never the case.
geez that was a huge runon but i don't have time to edit it. sorry.