ASUADPi, I definitely see and understand where you're coming from.
To play the devil's advocate though, what if the sister didn't know you were on the list?
I mean, I don't check the list on a regular basis even though I frequent this site. She may have agreed to be put on the safe list, but that doesn't mean she has a list of everyone's IDs burned into her memory, so how would she have known you were on the list?
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