Dear Bubbles,
Please feel free to e-mail me, I have also been in those same shoes of relationship troubles! I was also, like Theta-cutie, in almost the same boat--same situation almost! I've also seen in the thread called "Newbie" that you and Newbie are really good friends! Please feel free to e-mail me any time, any friend of Newbie's is my friend too!
Jacqueline