I have made a decision not to be involved with men with children, because I don't have or want children right now...and I feel that if you date a man with children, you should embrace his children as your own..and I"m not ready to do that. I don't believe in step-children..if you are my man's child..you'd be my child as well.. but then that's where the "drama" comes in because of differences in how I may want to discipline the child, school the child etc. I feel like relationships are hard enough to maintain..without having a 3rd parent in the mix. At the same time though I do think a lot of good men/women are overlooked because they have children..but I guess its all in what you want to deal with..
I also want to experience childbirth and all the other things that come along with bearing children with my husband for the FIRST time...
very hard to be traditional though in this day and age
