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Originally posted by aopirose
It’s funny that you posted this because I found this site the other night. It’s called Mom of 9s Place, http://www.momof9splace.com/. There is a whole section on Courting vs. Dating. This lady also goes into related areas about how a woman is supposed to be an obedient wife and all that it entails. That is being a Biblical woman, good homemaker and mother. She also goes on to say that God sank the Titanic and that it is a sin for a woman to wear pants but that’s another thread. Why was I there you ask? Well, I was actually looking for pictures of wedding cakes and this site popped up as a hit!
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Your post brings up an interesting topic..I thought about starting a thread on dating vs. courting..but I guess it can be discussed here. I agree with abaici that we've placed the importance of getting ourselves together before relationships..then when we get it all together...we look for love and get frustrated when we don't find it when we want.
However regarding dating vs. courting, this has been something that I have been dealing with alot lately, and honestly I must say I am taking myself OUT of the dating game. I don't understand the point of dating for years, knowing you love the person, having sex with him (if that's what you do), opening your heart completely up to this person, then after 3-5 years deciding this isn't working. I really feel like at this point in my life..at the point I know I'm catching feelings for the person..its time to have the talk about where this is going..and if he don't know..or isn't sure..then I need to be on my way...
OK i went on a tangent...but the dating/courting thing has been coming up a lot in my convo's lately..