My boyfriend and I have a bi-polar relationship it seems. Its either very very on, or very very off. Its amazing how much a part of my life he is. I have no doubt that were we not boyfriend/girlfriend, we would be the best of friends. Its like someone made a male version of me, except one thats an engineering and band geek
. The wierdest part of it all is that, when we have a fight, he's the person I want to cry about and the person I instinctively run to.
But the things that keep us together are:
Laughter. Fun. Acting like a kid. I cannot stress this enough. Every now and then, you just need to go to Chuck-E-Cheese and run around like idiots. Play video games. Have a tickle fight. Just don't ever stop laughing.
Focus on the tiny things. Every kiss goodbye is important. Every touch, every smile. Never take them for granted.
Realize that words can hurt. Keep a disagreement to the issue at hand. Don't call names, make mean comments. They only escalate the situation.
Positive Kay, I"m feeling what you're talking about with not being married or whatever. My guy and I Have been together since we were seniors in High School. We just celebrated our 3rd anniversary on 9.7.00. We've been together for so long, but have so far to go. We both want to go to grad school...its frustrating sometime to have something so amazing, but know that its goign to stay at that limbo stage for quite awhile longer.
Hehe, sorry for the long post...got carried away I guess
