SPACE!!!
Men always rant and rave about their space. Men are like babies and they require alot of attention. They need to be in the spot light. If your man really wants you in his life and says something about space, give him all he needs (to the point of not even paying ANY attention to him) and he'll snap outta it. But on a serious note, you should give the space he needs as you may want some yourself one day/week,etc. You should live the same life that your man is living. I'm not talking about cheating, because if that's going on, you shouldn't be in that relationship anyway. What I mean, for example, is if he's not calling you....don't call him asking why he's not calling, only call him for important things. He'll eventually wonder why you're not calling and he'll call you. (If he cares at all) If he is putting 50% into your relationship, you should put 50% in. Work as equals. After a while, if 100% isn't put into your relationship by the both of you.....it's not worth it.
If things ARE 100%, keep your relationship new and full of fun. You need to be mature adults in your relationship when the time calls for it but.....you should let the "kid" out every now and then.
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Set your goal!! Strive!! Bask in your reward!!
Positive Kay
[This message has been edited by Positive Kay (edited September 17, 2000).]
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