All great info, but just wanted to add something. I really think coming into a sorority, dont worry about numbers. Worry about how you feel and whats in your heart. If you really feel comfortable and like the girls, you have fun with them and really feel like you belong there and would love to become a sister, do it. Numbers just makes it stressful and complicated. When I joined, I said who cares about the numbers and who cares if they are the number one house or number 10 house, if I like them, Im joining. Go with your heart. These girls may be AWESOME girls, you just need to look past them being small and give them a chance. May be something that you are thankful that you did too.