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i think you first have to change your way of thinking, you must first know that your arent dealing with a man but a boy. a real man would respect you and be happy in the fact that you care about your body and have respect for yourself. That is a boy mentallity.
Im our society today we have to many boys and not enough men, is it our society where they make a boy think he is a man but the number of women he sleeps with? is it the fact that young boys arent being raised in a household with a father so they try to prove there manhood by sleeping with women? or is it that women have such low self esteems that they think all they have to offer is there body for a man?
could be on reason or all those reasons. But i think it comes down to our society's drive for love. Our whole ideal of love has been so distorted by sex, money and other things that we are becoming a society that doesnt know how to love. Example. 57% of marriages end in divorce ( to major reasons, money and sex), we have a president who would let thousand of people die because he wants to avenge his father, we have people killing others in the name of god, abortionist who fight for the right for life but kill to protect the right to live( is it me or does that defeat the purpose).
To sum it all up without going into a thesus statement, all these things i have mentioned are driven by love, whether its for god or a belief its love, and to relate it back to the thread, people dont know how to love or have a very selfish love. Love isnt selfish, but we are so dstorted aboutt hat word love we dont know how to do it. Males are a perfect example. Years of training about what a man is leads an absence of love. The word love is popular but the feeling, expression is truely unknown to so many.
i know its alot and i didnt even say everything i wanted to please comment
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