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Originally posted by adpiucf
I don't think you'll find one, but you will find chapters with loads of "traditional" age college students who are learning how to be mature adults and who feel that advisors at HQ are like mean and disapproving parents... so the maturing traditional age collegians are more likely to hide a problem than communicate openly... for fear they will be disciplined and punished, like a child being sent to his room. This lack of communication leads to mistrust and a chapter that can't communicate is looked at more closely, and yes, is more likely to screw up, because they've grown afraid to communicate even the smallest things-- like approving a local event.
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OMG THANK YOU ABBEY. That's exactly what I meant. Russ, you're totally twisting what I'm saying - and I think this is yet another "boys and girls are different" issue. Maybe you had bad experiences with advisors, but that absolutely is not the case most of the time.