[honeychile]

Having miscarried myself, I would definitely wait until at least the second trimester!

There are really nice maternity pillows that would be a lovely gift for the mommy-to-be, as well as the massage mentioned earlier.

I didn't know that I was the only one who gave books at baby showers - that's really nice to know!! I also don't believe in giving baby (up to 1 year) clothes - I go right for the 24 months or so. A friend of mine has a daughter who won't wear anything to church other than a little denim jumper I gave her, which really makes me feel good. I figured that the denim would work with a t-shirt or a sweater underneath.