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Originally posted by smiley21
please tell him. at the risk of repeating what already has been said, it needs to be emphasized. he deserves to know, especially if you are back together. you don't want to have to carry around this guilt. if the secret hasn't done so already, it will come back full force and become a heavy burden, because you were not honest in the first place. this is not just about being pregnant, it could be anything. when it seriously concerns the two of you, communication is the best. no one said it will be easy, but it is important that it is out in the open. when the guy is still in your life, you don't need to be carrying this burden on your own.
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Your doctor suspects that you were pregnant but it was never confirmed. As for your period being late, you said that you moved back home. If you're going through a stressful time sometimes that can also cause your period to be late and include heavy bleeding. If you took a home pregnancy test and found out that way that's a different story.
Let's take a step back. She has nothing to feel guilty over. She didn't do anything wrong. Spontaneous miscarriages are quite common during the first month which is why most women don't announce their pregnancies right away.
As for telling him, I don't think it's a good idea. You have no idea how he'll take the news. Depending on his views, he may spin it to blame her for harming "their child".