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Originally posted by wrigley
It would be good for you to take the time off from the relationship. The decision of whether you take him back or not shouldn't be done so quickly. If he is "the one" then he'll respect the time you take to make sure that the decision you make is on your timetable and not his.
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I agree. Take your time... you need to think the situation through thoroughly, plus if you take him back right away, it sends the message that it's ok for him to cheat because you'll take him back right away.
There are a handful of situations where I could see trying to work things out - if you were "on a break" or had decided that it was ok to see other people since you were so far apart. I'm guessing that this wasn't the case. The fact that he's moved to be with you does weigh in his favor.
I would dump him... but that's me. You have to do what's right for you.
Take care.
