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Sageofages I understand the whole sowing your oats thing. Then he should have been honest and said that's what he needed to do at the time so she wouldn't be put through this. But situations and opportunites happen without logic.
I wonder whether he came forward on his own or did she discover something that led to his confession. I guess it doesn't matter how you found out Penny it still hurts just the same.
I agree with everyone you need to do what's best for you. It would be good for you to take the time off from the relationship. The decision of whether you take him back or not shouldn't be done so quickly. If he is "the one" then he'll respect the time you take to make sure that the decision you make is on your timetable and not his. Perhaps couples counseling may be an option to consider if you choose to stay with him.
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