I'm sorry that you're going through this. Different people will have different perspectives and advice... but I have a question:
What were the circumstances surrounding his cheating? Besides being objectively a betrayal... was this a one time moment of weakness/failure when he was drunk? Did he have a relationship with the other woman... did/does he love her?
Regardless... it breaks your heart and hurts your trust. But the circumstances and what they say to you might influence your decision on whether to work at saving the relationship or not.
Best wishes to you and lots of cyber (((hugs))) and tissues.
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