Hi Sue,

First of all, I was VERY OFFENDED by bebe's original reply for my response (in the financial struggle advice thread that has since been deleted). I had offered to help. However, my response was not satisfactory for her, therefore she felt the need to tell me "not to click the reply button" because I was of no help to her. Many of her posts have been rude.

Second, I know she has apologized profusely, but that shouldn't mean that I am obligated to accept her apology.

Third, just because she's only 16, young, and not knowing doesn't mean that we should be relenting and sympathetic, nor does this give her a reason to be obnoxious with some of her posts. I don't expect her to have a college/young adult frame of mind, but in the future I'd hope that she THINKS about what she posts before actually doing so.

I see no problem with you and the others sympathizing for her, and it is not my intention to change your opinions of her. It's okay that you feel for her, but I sure don't. Sorry.