Not necessarily. If you notice the videos that have more overt sex themes involved are usually the ones where the songs can't stand on their own merit. In 10yrs will these songs be remembered for anything else than their disrepect of women?
As for your personal choice not to have sex, the men are responding that way because deep down they know you won't fall for any of their tired lines.I'm sure they're minds are frozen because that means they actually have to talk to a woman like a person and not as a player. Uh oh
I'd just respond that for me it's quality not quantity. When you find a man that can measure up to what you want why should you settle? And if a guy is bragging on how much sex he is having chances are he is having it alone or with a blowup doll.