bethmousey, what makes you think you are any different than any of the rest of us?
Heck, I would guess, if an Alum from another Chapter or out of state said Hi, I am a Sister from so and so, would be welcomed to be of help.
If you look at greekchatters pix, there are some of us who aint models or pin ups, but there is one thing between us, We Love Our Greek Organizations.!

What is Sterotypical looking anyway?
Talk about young Alums, why? Granted they are still full of the piss and vinegar of haveing just been graduated and wanting to keep things going, but, I have been doing this for 40 years.
There are many Alums/AI Members who are doing and keeping the light of the Organization going. Just check out Jill and navane for two.