[Tippiechick]

Flame away for this, but if it had been my husband that cheated on me like this...

I would have:

*burned every last one of his favorite things in the house (his collections, etc.) on the front lawn

*dipped all of his clothes in bleach and then left them beside the ashes for him to find

*changed each and every door lock

I have seen too many men cheat and then do it all over again and again and again and again. It gets to be a cycle. There were underlying reasons why this happened. And, just trying to stop the cheating won't work.

IMO, ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER!