I just read a post where a young woman wanted to (a) take the guy out to dinner for his b'day (b) buy him a present and (c) was looking for hints to do something else for him!!! - Take it from me - I ran up a $5000.00 credit card bill from doing stuff like that for my boyfriend - don't do it!! He did not spend a cent on me - I spent so much on him - and in the end - I graduated and left - - he called me over the next two years but met some other sucker. Please know girls that I'm sure each one of you are beautiful and smart - don't let someone take advantage of your good heart - it is not worth the bills in the end! Sorry to be down but my wonderful husband paid off that credit card bill - how crappy does that make me feel that my husband paid off my debt for the deadbeat I dated! Thanks for letting me vent! Sue