[ilovemyglo]

Sounds like she still has a lot of growing up to do.
She needs to be woman enough to say, Mom this is the man I want to marry, either you support us or you don't but he is staying.

Did you ever say anything to the effect of
"babe, I love you, but lately this thing with me and your mom- and you always seem to be on her side- well I need to know, can you please tell her to lay off and take care of her own marriage?" Or something to that affect?

But if you really just want a "should I or shouldn't i call her?"

HELL NO! Don't do it- cause then she will believe SHE DOES have you wrapped around her finger tight.
and shell think you are crawling back to her.