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Obviously I don't know you or your ex, but I kind of agree with AKAMonet on this one.
It seems to me that there are deeper issue surrounding your break up, you just don't want to address them. I honestly feel that if both of you were 100% ready for marriage you would have been able to work together on the MIL issue. If she was ready to "cut the umbilical cord" so to speak, she would have been able to stand up to her mother.
There's nothing wrong with realizing that your not ready for this kind of commitment, but I think it's unfair to blame this 100% on her mother (even if she is the uber bitch you make her out to be). You two have to take some of blame.
Anyway, you came her for the quick answer so many people have said it. DON'T CALL HER. If you truely want nothing more to do with her, calling her will only make her hurt more.
If you do want to try and work things out, please don't rule out couples counseling. It's not as "ghey" has you think. It can help both of you discuss the deeper issues, which I think you are trying to avoid.
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