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Originally posted by cashmoney
Nic, you're amazing. Thanks for the advice.  I think you're right in more ways than you know. My thing is when someone really close to me, like her, breaks the trust factor.....thats it. Most of the time they don't get it back. And if they do get my trust back, it's really hard if not impossible. Thats why i don't think things could ever be right between her mother and I. I know she talks shit behind my back all the time but then is nice to me to my face. Imagine if we had kids, which she totally wanted really soon, and think of the kind of situation that would leave me in when it'd be time for them to go see/stay with her mother. I wouldn't want my kids being around a grandmother who talks bad about their father and thinks he isnt good enough for her daughter. The woman would fuck me over in a heartbeat. How could anyone have a mother-in-law like that and be expected to act like everything was fine or should live with it? Would any of you? Maybe I'm just overreacting, I was in 2 car accidents in a week after all this happened. I might be a little stressed out right now...but still, do you think I have valid reasons for being the way I am as far as dealing with this?
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You absolutely have a valid reason for dealing with situation the way you have. Luckily, I've never been in your place before because all my boyfriend's parents have loved me.
I may not be the best person to give advice as to what to do about crazy in-laws. I do know there's a certain moderator on here that has crazy in-laws and she might be willing to share her stories and opinions. I'm hoping she's reading this thread.