[KO_Pike]

I went to school out of state and joined the Pi Kappa Alpha Fraternity and it was the best thing that happend to me. Coming back home, I have gotten a not so welcoming from people. Mixed emotions... now I am looked upon by everyone like some kind of person that parties and drinks till I pass out. I am sure most of you have heard this "why do you pay money just to have friends?".
In addition, I have a gf who is a SK and they say that I have a "sorority girl as a gf" Like this are going to fall apart because all they do is party. I do my best to explain, but I dont think that I should have to, so I just shrug it off. They dont know what goes on.

QUESTION: What should I say or do to make them see things are much deeper than that? They dont know how much my Fraternity and the greek community means to all of us.